Do Distance Really Makes Friendship Fonder?

Distance. Change. Time. Togetherness. Something in common.


Stumbling upon the words above, what has flashed across your mind?
There are some times in my life where i would ask myself what is the true meaning of 'friendship', 'best friend', 'good friend' and 'friends of mutuality', and the ways to define them.
Wondering if friendship is only one of the insignificant snippet of life?
If it's not, what kind of role it should play in our lives?
Okey, now for me, i am groping to find my own encryption for the word 'friend'.
Friend, is the one who will be your side.
Friend, is the one who will be your side all the time.
Friend, is the one who will be your side all the time through ups and downs.
Friend, is the one who will be your side all the time through ups and downs and will never hesitate to reach out a helpful hand.
Friend, is the one who will be your side all the time through ups and downs and will never hesitate to reach out a helpful hand without string attached.
Friend, is the one who will be your side all the time through ups and downs and will never hesitate to reach out a helpful hand without string attached, despite all the accuses against you.
Friend, is the one who will be your side all the time through ups and downs and will never hesitate to reach out a helpful hand without string attached, despite all the accuses against you and never be red-eyed on your success.
Friend, is the one who will be your side all the time through ups and downs and will never hesitate to reach out a helpful hand without string attached, despite all the accuses against you and never be red-eyed on your success, at the same time will never look down on you while luck just had it.


So, to assess the depth of a friendship, i think, you may take this as a joystick to measure how far you all have been, and how far, both of you still can go.
But, sometimes, we human tends to be too ambitious about something without taking rationality into our accounts, citing 'friendship'.


Huh.. Still haven't given up in my quest for best friends..

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TIRED~

The day could not be more hectic as my days are pre-occupied with all kinds of activities.
Just drop by to tell you guys that im still alive ^ ^

feeling sleepy as minute grows.. SO Chao for now... ZzZ

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Decision

Decision.
Making a decision is many times harder than i could ever imagine. Especially in things associated with my future and my career. 
Ever since i was given the right to make my own decision, ranging from trivia to important things that could change my life, I suck in making decision. I always hesitate, even though the thing that keeps plying into my mind is just a matter of unimportant thing like whether to eat an ice-cream, whether to take a nap, etc..
In accordance to Chinese physiognomy（面相学）, the person who is born with big ears (note that the size of our ears are evaluated by ratio of ears to face) is shrewd in making wise decision, and the converse is also true. Unluckily, I am exactly the opposite one.
Now, it's time for me decide which road i should choose. Myriad of opinions comes pouring in, even more than i could swallow and digest. Worse still, Every opinion seems making perfect sense to me. Some are supportive in backing me up and encouraging to me so that i should choose this road, and others just oppose it with lot of underpinning facts that seem too true to be taken into accounts. While i am still groping for a best answer, autocracy slowly makes an appearance in my life...
It comes vaguely in indistinct figure, i still cannot assure that whether that is autocracy or whatsoever. 


Frankly, half of me craves for freedom in making my decision without any influence from others. But this region in my heart also fear that there may be possibility that i am making a wrong decision because i am shallow; Another half of me craves for others' opinions in terms of the decision im about to make as they may look things in a wider view and angle, but, this part of me, is also worried that the decision i make is not based on what i really wants in the bottom of my heart and is not proportional to my aptitude that god grants to me. 


My intention, others' opinions, both are equally important but, i should always look inside myself and listen to the voice within before looking out for others' opinions on this stuff. Because, the one who has to live with the decision made, is not anyone else who is now too keen to offer his opinion, but, myself.

i suppose that rabbit are the best decision makers in the world XD

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Overdomination

Do u ever realize that u have sometimes seized the chance of voicing ur opinion too tight, till the extent that, others beside u dun stand a chance to tell their perceptions too?

In my life, there are people talking too wise, there are people dun even bother to let the world notice them and others to construe their mind. today, i have met two kinds of people who are talking wise. 

But, what is meant by talking wise in the first place then?

Talking wise, means a person speaks the right thing at the right moment to the right people, at the same time never fail to impress other about their wisdom and knowledge. The repercussion is, others will start to notice about you and be deeply impressed. People will feel comfortable talking to this kind of people. 

In my life, there is a figure who never fails to impress me whenever he/she talks. He/She is knowledgeable and it's not hard for others to see that. He/She is some sort of a consultant to us when we are troubled by some inevitable ordeals. He/She is nice, friendly and approachable. Most importantly, he/she knows how to back off seeing others about to move forward. He/She gives leeway to others to voice their mind and respect and gives allowance to the difference in opinions. i admire him/she personally, although sometimes his/her jokes sometimes turn to be over the top. 

Another one, he/she is somehow, to me, talking too wise. He/She knows alot, there is no question about that. But the problem is, the way he/she express himself/herself. He/She, keeps making his/her pace, regardless of people beside them. Others who collides with him/her would always be the ones who fall and the embarrassed one because of his/her strong presence. His/Her words sometimes turn to be noticeably acerbic when his/her voice rises a few octaves. People easily gets hurt if they don't fathom the whole situation as he/she always keep himself/herself in high esteem even though he/she realizes his/her mistakes.  I still love him/her although sometime I would still be bruised by his/her words that comes showering...

i am glad that my Lord let me know this two kinds of person so as to enlighten me on the importance of the way we should talk. ^ ^

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Confidence is Beautiful

A Picture of me taken yesterday night..

Confidence crisis. i found that word, i think, on my friend's blog. Not sure about that. Whatever. The point is, what is confidence? What makes confidence? What makes you feel confident?

Confidence - belief in oneself and one's powers or abilities 

Theorically, everyone should possess confidence as it makes up what we call self-esteem and dignity.

But matter of fact, some people still lose their way in the mist of inferiority. They have a distorted image about their appearance, their look, their body size, their weight and so on. And that is what thwarting them from advancing, or rather, facing the world. But the poor thing about them is that, they never realize that, that is what makes them. Everyone comes with certain perfections and imperfections. The subtle combination causes the diversity among the human being. And note that there is a balance between the former and the latter, meaning that everyone get an equal amount of perfections and imperfections. 

Quote Christina Aguilera, We are beautiful, no matter what they say.

Yes, we are beautiful in our own way. There 'd always  people who seem more beautiful than we are. It's not that he is more privileged. In the sense of self-understanding, yes he is, because he has found what is beautiful about him, and flourish it. Be it a heart of gold, or perfection on the appearance.

When we look inside ourselves,

actually we can live without the praises from others, 

admiration of others. Most importantly we feel good about ourselves, and find the beautiful thing in us, and let it blossom.

SO, what is the most beautiful thing in you?  

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A New Day Has Come...

WORLD, here comes the NEW personal blog of mine ^ ^. *applauses*
To be honest, it is chris, a best friend of mine,
who give me the idea and inspiration of creating a new one.
This blog,
if it is to carry some sort of meaning, i would like to refer it as a heralding mark of the new transformation that is happening to me.


CHANGES huh?!
an ambiguous term to me...


so a brand new me is just born here. haha. Stay Tune

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